How To Prepare Your Social Skills For Spring And Summer Dating

If you missed out on Love or a love-connection this past fall and Valentine's Day, don't give up. You still have Spring right around the corner. And, Summertime is right after that. Six whole months of Mother Nature raising our "Attraction Awareness Levels".

People will be looking for Love and, people will be waiting for Love.

A lot of people will be working out so that they will look good in their bikinis and swimwear. And, many will be out shopping for eye-catching tight-fitting shorts and T-shirts and jeans so that they can attract attention or look sexy for the crowds of singles looking for love or a romantic escapade.

So, now is a good time to work on your greetings, small-talk, and deeper-level (or intimate/personal) conversation skills.

I would recommend that you start saving some money so that you will have "baller's fare" when you want to go out and have some fun. I'm not saying spend it all in one place! Just stack plenty of cash so that you will be able to enjoy the longer days (during daylight savings time) and any of the events that will take place. Put yourself in the perfect position to have fun and meet new people.

Plus, having more money in your pocket will give you more options and more confidence.


This is also a superb time to look for some good places to go on a date. Ask around. Surf the Net for restaurants, arcades, sports activities, a museum or a historic city, or go to the beach.

Be prepared. Get a calendar and create a "to-do list" before it gets too late.

And, don't forget: It continues to get even better from here:

During the fall, all kinds of festivals take place and gives you the opportunity to meet weird and interesting people. Who knows... You might meet someone just as weird as you are and find true love. It happens all the time.

Start connecting with people at work, family members, casual friends, etc. Call them up or messenger them to see how they're doing and what plans they may have for Spring season. How are they getting ready? Are they planning to join a gym? Are they spring-cleaning around the house? Are they taking any trips? Are they joining any clubs? Are they buying a motorcycle or learning how to ride one? Do they want to learn to play tennis?

Some people are looking for work-out buddies and partners to do stuff with. They might not be looking for love, but they might know someone who is.

Start eating healthier for more energy, clearer skin, and to lose weight or tone your muscles.

You also have time to get your credit and finances right for a new place or transportation since a lot of businesses are hiring workers for the busy spring season and building season. This means there is more "guapola" (them greenbacks) out there to be had. And, more guapola means more options and more cash in the bank!

And, again: More Confidence and a feeling of Security.

This will help your social skills immensely.

It's not just about the money, it's the ability to do more.

In the meantime, Practice, Practice, Practice. Start mixing and mingling now.

Practice greeting people and making small-talk. Practice talking about important topics. Practice talking about your day. Practice asking questions about people and what's going on in their lives. Practice your conversation skills on family members, friends, co-workers, strangers, customers, clerks, etc. Just build your skills so that you will be ready when you see someone you would like to meet and get to know more about.

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